THE REMEDY FOR ALL THAT AILS US

The Remedy For All That Ails Us

By Sheree Denise Rainbolt-Kren
(c) 2007

PEOPLE RARELY GIVE US the important opportunity to love them
despite their perceived flaws. For good reason. People hide
from one another for a host of reasons. Why do they do that?
Why do we do that? Because, we learn very early on what
happens when we are bad. It's unpleasant - these
consequences. We are judged, lectured and punished. So, the
next time we are bad, we simply lie about our badness. Or,
we deny being bad, or blame it on another. Anything to keep
from revisiting the four walls of our messy room, or worse,
a red butt and no dinner. Anything but shame, as if denial
or lies will keep us from feeling ashamed. The container of
our soul is infinitely deep.

We were taught to hide the inner thoughts that create
misaligned action as young children. We learn to hide
ourselves with each new family vacation, report card, new
friend, new project, new job, new marriage, etc. We move
further and further into the abyss of self hatred, and then
we have children. Thank God for that. Let's get the ball
rolling on creating a new and more talented innocent me. I
will get it right this time.

Parents are tired and have little time to sit down with
children to love them unconditionally, at all cost. Few stop
and take the time to understand the cost of not doing so. I
have been that parent. There are the long lectures, the
projections of our own childhoods, and fear of what will
happen to our sweet but helpless child IF they do not learn
how to play in the world *the right way*. Like the hands of
a clock that beat one minute to the next, so go the lessons
of our toddlerhood, childhood, adolescence and our
adulthood. The circular life experience, that never ends,
just repeats its timely patterns, confident that the past
will be a reliable blueprint for the future. This circular
insanity births a kind of sick confidence that no one will
wake up to the remedies so easily seen when Love is trusted.
Unconditional love. Not love that is given only under
certain circumstances. Not love that comes because we, as
parents, teachers and bosses, know what is best. That is not
love. True love does not know sin. That is because God's
children do not sin. They experiment. True Love understands
mistakes and error in perception, then forgives and teaches,
from heart, bringing no harm of any kind.

Before we turn 8 years old, we are very clear on what will
happen if we spit, kick, scream, throw, crash, needle, and
lie. Since it is human nature to do these things at some
points along the way, even as adults, we have had to find
deceptive ways to live our lives. No one wants to be found
out. Why? Because we were taught that being bad is bad, and
dangerous, and selfish, and we will not be loved if we are
bad. So, we will not let people know that we have been bad.
Instead, we will lie, deny or blame another. Over and over
and over. Until the mud is so thick with shame and guilt, we
sink into depression. Then, even as we experience this
depression, we can't identify it, because our subconscious
mind is busy telling us it is about something taking place
outside ourselves; in the world, and with the other people
in it. And, on some level, this is true because this
blueprint is activated on the day you are born into human
form. The world falls on you, energetically, as soon as you
take your first breath of earthly air.

But, the big people are not wholly ignorant, and many
opportunities come to see the truth of what has gone on.
Some are strong enough to see, and others are not. The ones
who are not yet strong enough to see the truth of
themselves, will not find much sympathy in today's world.
There is no escape for the 65 year old male who chooses to
activate an ancient hidden imprint. An imprint so dark, that
it must surface in order to be seen with loving eyes and
healed. All darkness we see is seen for a very important
reason. To look upon it without fear and disgust and
surrender it to Love's decision. We do not know what
everything is for. But, of this much I am certain: The
darkness does not show itself so we will make it bigger. It
shows itself so we might choose to offer it to Love. What
does that mean to you? Your decision on what that means to
you... is the world you live in. We live in. Many people
call themselves followers of Master Jesus, yet they do not
understand Love. I too have failed many times.

Babies are not usually ready to make intelligent decisions
in the world of earth, so they must rely on the good
decision making of their parents. If you stop and think
about it, that's a very scary proposition. It's not that
parents are bad, it's just that we have yet to,
collectively, figure it all out. So, the pattern not only
repeats, it strengthens. Your current vibrational imprint
holds all of your experiences, going as far back as the day
you were born, and then born again, and again and again.

Once we learn about shame and guilt from our parents, it's
off to school to learn it from teachers of an educational
system built to shame children into performing and behaving.
Get an A, win a pizza party. Get a B, win an ice cream cone
certificate. Get a C, win nothing. Get a D, win a note home.
Get an F, win the loser stamp on your forehead and the red
marker F with the frowny face. Imagine the imprint of five
red F's. Our prisons are filled with red F's. Our
hospitals are filled with red F's.

We humans have created a world of deception. We are
immature. We have refused to grow up. We are fully
responsible for the collective shame, guilt and the
spherical construct of the self hatred that brings lost
wars. Imagine if there were a roof on this, because there
is. Imagine if all that self hatred were contained in a box.
A box filled with some bright ideas and good intentions, but
a box filled with centuries and centuries of hateful
influence that understands the human mind and the 3D
psychology required to keep the box dim. No child left
behind.

What is the remedy? Are we to allow murder, rape,
embezzlement and war? That's the wrong question. Here's
the right question: How do I love my baby, my toddler and my
adolescent, unconditionally? If we can truly love our babies
and children, we can flip this world over, face up, and
heal. But, it will take time, and maybe several generations.
It will take one parent at a time, stopping the madness. One
teacher at a time, stopping the madness. One boss at a time,
stopping the madness. One prison warden, one claims
adjuster, one bank president, one lunch lady. What will
happen if we don't start now, earnestly, with just you and
me? What if we just can't stop the madness? It's not the
way the world works. Not the way things are done. It's
impossible. Now what? Maybe we wait until we have had more
rest. Maybe we wait for cues from others so we don't look
like fools. Maybe we wait until China gets it right. Maybe
if our politicians pass laws that make us change our minds.
Maybe we will read a few more articles on the topic and do a
study. Maybe it's too late, for our children are grown, but
a good article in any case.

When our children throw rocks and draw on their new dressers
with magic markers, it is important to breathe before
speaking. The facial expressions alone are what horror
movies are made of. We don't even have to speak. Our
eyeballs say it all "OMG, you idiot! You moron! You bad,
bad child who is embarrassing me and causing me stress I
DON'T NEED!" This, right here, is the cause of all that
ails our world. This four year old, who acted instinctively,
based on ALL the energies of Low D, not just *the right
ones*, has experienced an energy shift of monumental
proportion. It is a hole that cannot be filled with
chocolate and new shoes, because this child knows now what
fear and anger looks and feels like. Band aids can stop the
bleeding, but it will not stop the imprint. The imprint
cannot be destroyed. It can be transformed with Love. True
love. But without true love, this imprint is the foundation
for all that comes next. And we wonder why there is so much
pain.

Children are like sponges. They become what you want them to
become. The problem is that you don't realize what you are
wanting. You think you want a good child, for his sake, but
what you really want is a good child for your sake. No
problems. No worries. You want to have the family that you
remember watching on TV as a little girl, so you can show it
to the world to prove you did good. You overcame the mud and
won. But, we know this is not a win. A real win is light on
any subject and love anyway.

All that really matters is love. From the very beginning.
From the operating room, to the bottle, to the high chair,
to the playground, to the school bus, to the baseball field
and dance recitals, and to the first date. To the first car,
the first love, the first marriage, the first pink slip, the
first divorce, the first breakdown, the first zoloft, the
first parole hearing, whatever. All the way through life, to
the very end. But, it begins with the first breath. We are
parents forever. We are teachers forever, but it begins on
day one. If we manage all the childhoods with true love, we
won't have to worry about the adulthoods. They will be a
natural result of the earlier imprints, and we all share
responsibility for it. If I had it to do all over again, I
would understand more deeply what is required. I was not a
perfect parent. I am not yet a perfect parent. I make plenty
of mistakes. But, I know more today than I knew yesterday,
and new knowledge should never be wasted.

When your children come to you and own the mistakes they
make, because they know you will not hurt them, in any way,
you know you have taken the steps needed to be one more
person who can be a mighty change in this dimension. Your
contribution of love will be multiplied a thousand fold.
There is no other remedy.

You don't have to be a parent to participate. You are in
the world. You are exchanging energy with humans and all
living things daily. You have a responsibility.

The remedy is ONE. One person waking up to the remedy and
hanging with it at all cost. Trusting in Love to heal the
illusion. When ONE does this, TWO benefit immediately. When
TWO benefit, FOUR (at least) feel the effects. Love grows.
In time, we will forget how to yell at a child, belittle a
child, starve a child, and beat a child into submission and
a life of deceit, for there will be no fear of harm from
another, of any kind. There will truthful understanding of
the child mind that loves to use magic markers to create.
And, for those times when a child brings harm to another
living thing, there is new awareness that we have the sacred
opportunity to teach for their sake, not just our own.
Teaching from love, without punishment or reward. No red
F's. Everyone is invited to the Pizza Party.

If we do not understand the value in true love for our
children, we are destined for a horrendous existence. But,
when we take our own pain and fear and set it aside in the
crucial moments, so we don't get it on our kids, we will
heal our own pain and fear without lifting a finger. The act
of selfless love for a child is the remedy for the entire
physical Universe. Always. On this day, you are free to
choose a new way. A day at a time. If you are a parent, you
can change your mind about the world you really want. If you
are teacher, you can be the first example of a new way to
want the world. If you are a boss, you can be instrumental,
as the first boss in your organization who truly believed in
Love to meet budget.

You will be taught, first as a child, then later as an
adult, the right way to do things in this world. Before you
hang with that, look at the world you are living in.

Do the big people really have all the answers? Or, is there
a still small voice within that knows the truth and has the
will and the courage to do it your way. When your child hits
another child in school, and you are called in, are you
ready to resist the temptation to be horrified? Are you
strong enough to embrace your child, in front of everyone in
the front office, and tell him of your love for him? Are you
now ready to take that child's hand and understand why they
hit the child? Are we ready to pray and surrender this
incident unto the One Who Knows? Are you willing to step
outside the human construct and BE the light you came to be?
If you can manage this case with true love, the next case
may never occur.

It's quite clear, to me anyway, that our world has not
worked well with harsh love - tough love. We are off path
and set for a violent ending. But, do you know the power of
one choice? Of one decision to shift? Even as your game
piece is rounding the corner to the end of your own life?
You are never without power. It is what Creation is made
of.

© Sheree Rainbolt-Kren, 2007

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Sheree, married 20 years, with three children, hosts several online forums and owns www.pendulumsandmore.com . She teaches Reiki and Spiritual Dowsing through her free online yahoo group: health.groups.yahoo.com/group/THEPENDULUMFORUM/, where she hosts the largest online libraries for Reiki manuals and dowsing information. Join the group to get free ebooks, pendulum charts, audio classes and more.

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