Christian Marriage Bed Advice

The topic of the marriage bed from a Christian women's perspective is a taboo thing these days. We as good little Christian girls are taught not to speak of "private matters" but many don't' even know what those are, all that is known is that love making is for the married and to make babies.

In Christian homes all across America girls are taught exactly say no to "pre-marital relations". That mantra is carried into the marriage bed and numerous couples face hurt feeling and major problems in their relationship.

What is actually taught is what is discovered from TV, school and friends. But if they are a typical Christian girl they are surrounded only by family TV, school that teaches only the necessity of how to make babies and the bad consequences of disease and the friends well they are in the simular boat as that typical Christian girl so nothing is being taught or the wrong matter is being ingrained into their head.

Numerous women find themselves on their wedding night staring into their hubbies caring view daring not to look any farther south. They are unprepared for the marriage bed. Certain they can cook, clean even raise children well adequate. But they don't know how to do this one, really vital, matter.

Hubbies come with this internal understanding of what the marriage bed is all about… but the girls are thrown into a sink or swim situation. And let's be truthful most of us sink. We are not equipped nor have the knowledge to be good lovers. We deny our own desires and don't comprehend our married man's what appears to be excessive drive.

Thanks to many generations of good Christian girls before us we discover ourselves confused and avoiding the marriage bed at all cost and some even go in like it was battle. And we are geared up for it to boot. Who knew armor in the marriage bed was a bad thing?

We don't have the know how to be pleasing to our husbands and don't recognize how to be pleased. It is more then a physical matter. It is an emotional and spiritual act too. When your mind is stating no this is wrong and you totally cut out the spiritual you are not fully experiencing the marriage bed.

We must undo years of wrong teachings and re-learn what is right and what is expected of us. But you say where do we look? Look to the one who has all solutions.. God and he has the fact all laid out for you in the Word. You must begin this process of unlearning and retraining through much prayer and open mindedness and have an open and sensitive heart.

I am not perfect by any signifies and noticed myself confused and scared out of my mind.. I'm yet relearning but by the Grace of God my marriage bed is one of happiness and real pleasure. I dare you to open the scriptures with your hubby and learn what God the Father has in store for your bedroom and make your spouses wildest dreams come real and yours too. And please be portion of the solution and instruct your girl about what the marriage bed is all about and not let another one day married woman go through the sink or swim situation.

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